"I Want to be Blind."

Imagine this scene. Your child is chatting away about different topics when they declare that they want to be blind. Now, as a parent you know that there are people who are blind that are very capable and successful. Think Stevie Wonder, for example. Yet, you know they had to overcome challenges and learn in different ways. So, do you try to impart your wisdom to your child verbally? Are you the type of person who will have a discussion and check out books about Braille or Helen Keller? Will you go to a presentation about seeing eye dogs?

This exact situation happened one day. Our daughter declared that she wanted to be blind. One would have to wonder what would cause this declaration and once I figured out that she was simply curious, I decided to seize the opportunity. While the previous mentioned methods of teaching about blindness work fine, I figured we had a great learning opportunity. As I recalled my many fun sociology experiments in college and our flexible homeschool schedule, I quickly made an administrative decision and replied, “I can arrange for you to be blind for the day.”

After our daughter got over being stunned she got excited about the prospect of this experiment. I think she figured she would not have to do anything all day! But what type of parent would I be if I didn’t give her a realistic taste of being blind especially since blind people function in society daily. So, I got two eye patches, from when I had corneal scratches, and a eye mask for sleeping and promptly arranged them over her eyes. Then I gave her a stick and let her go.

She was very fascinated with this experiment as she banged around the house trying to orient herself as to where everything was situated. Of course, the dogs were running for their lives. We talked about how blind people use their other senses more to assist them. So, for example, their hearing is more attuned. They often will feel things around them. They will ask for help or use a tool such as a stick for guidance or a guide dog and so on.

She continued this for about 2 hours and then lunch came. I fixed lunch, gave her a plate and let her go. When she realized I was going to watch a little television she decided to join me. As she arranged herself on the couch, she decided that she would only be partially blind and wanted to remove the coverings on one eye. When I pointed out that blind people don’t have the luxury of deciding to all of a sudden see, I could tell she was starting to wonder what she had gotten herself into.

I explained that being blind is not something someone can turn on and off. So, I told her she would need to use her imagination and hearing skills to “watch” this show. She was bothered at this prospect but I stuck to it. I told her that after watching the show while being blind then she could decide if she wanted to continue with this experiment but not until she had watched the whole show.

So, she ate her food and listened. She shared how hard it was to listen to a show and how she felt like she was missing parts of the show. We talked about how blind people deal with these challenges and how they overcome them.

Once the show was over she promptly removed her patches and coverings and declared that she did not want to be blind. The experiment had clearly been a success. She learned about a different group of people and the struggles they face. She learned about compassion and how little she uses her other four senses. The lessons will stay with her for life because she did not just read about them or listen to a lecture, she actually lived them.

Beans, beans and more beans

Kids love beans. Uncooked that is! Younger children love playing with them because of the sounds they make, their color and the way they feel. This is a great way for developing gross motor skills, manipulation and creativity.

When our daughter was younger she was thrilled whenever I would give her a pot of uncooked beans, a spoon, plastic measuring cup, and a couple bowls or pots. She would spend a good half hour just scooping and pouring them between the pots. They have been included in her pretend restaurant.

For less than a few dollars, beans are a great tool in learning, especially when they are purchased in bulk. They can of course be used for creativity as in imagining the child is cooking but take a moment and think of other uses for this protein?

For younger children they can scoop beans from one pot to a bowl and develop their gross motor skills. As they get older and use a spoon they can develop their hand-eye coordination. If they are given a decent size funnel they can even practice using both of their hands to scoop and hold a funnel.

Pictures can be created used different beans and colors for a collage. The beans can be used as an impetus for hearing the story of Jack and the Beanstalk.

As the children get older they can be used as a math manipulative for counting, sorting, and doing math. Beans can easily be measured by weight. And different colored beans can be used to create a graph.

Different beans can be incorporated into a lesson on different forms of protein. They can be used for home economics by the children when they learn how to cook beans, incorporate them in different recipes and so on. They could even create a bean cookbook with their own recipes, which would then incorporate writing, math and creativity.

For older children, beans can be used as an aid in teaching about different food lifestyles such as vegetarians. They can also be used to learn about different cultures that utilize beans in their diet such as Mexico. There is, of course, the science experiment with growing beans and identifying their parts. Children can learn about the process of picking beans and the countries where different beans grow as part of social studies.

As with the lowly cardboard box, don’t discount the creative and learning opportunities that are presented by such a simple food, the bean. If you have other ideas of how beans can be incorporated into learning please comment below.

$1.00 or Less Learning

What did you do with the box that you recently received at home? Ever wonder what happens to all the boxes at the stores and grocery stores? When was the last time you used a box? Was it for moving or storage? If you are like most adults, you overlook the measly cardboard box. After all, once it serves its purpose what use is it?

There are many uses for a box beyond moving, storage or shipping. A simple box can become an imaginary car, train, sled or ship. It can be used for a table or desk when flipped over. This can then be used for the purpose of an imaginary restaurant, dining room table, or grocery store counter. Larger boxes can be used for huts or tents. Most boxes just get crushed once they serve their purpose so why not ask for a box to bring home. If you are looking for a larger box, check appliance stores.

While the main learning experience will be the use of your child’s creativity and imagination, many other lessons can be incorporated. If your child is very young you could ask them to tell you a story using their box as a car, for example. You could record their story or transcribe it and help them create a book. Then you could read the story they wrote.

If the child is older you could ask them to write a story with a beginning such as: “One day, I sat in a box which magically became ….” Now, spelling, creativity, writing, and English can be incorporated. Another option might be to set up a grocery store using the box. Let the child practice selling items and making change with real money. This allows them to practice communication skills, math and entrepreneurship.

For older children you could invite them to decorate the box and collect cans for the homeless shelter or treats for the troops overseas. In these situations, they get to use many skills while learning the following: - Communication and persuasion skills can be developed while doing the collecting. - Math can be used for weighing and measuring so that packing can be done properly. - Geography can be used to locate the place to which the box will be shipped. - Current events as to what is going on in that part of the world and why the box is needed there. - Good citizenship can be learned by helping their fellow man. - If they drop off the box to a homeless shelter or food pantry, they can learn about how one can be in poverty, organizations that help individuals who are in poverty, whether it is the government’s responsibility to get people out of poverty, and other ways to help.

So, the next time you see a measly box bring it home for your kids. You will be amazed at the fun and learning that can take place for less than a $1.00.

If you have others ideas of how a box can be used be sure to click on comments and share your ideas!

"Dad, Can I Have My Blox Back?"

Fairs can be popular for the rides, the booths, the food, and entertainment. (Did I mention the fried dough?) Often the fairs have a theme such as the Garlic Festival, the Apple Blossom Festival, the Harvest Festival. Recently, we attended the Big E which is the agricultural fair for the northeast. As homeschoolers we were able to secure a free ticket through our homeschool group for our daughter. So we set out to visit the fair on a weekday when there were fewer people than the weekend.

Of course we made this experience a learning adventure. We talked about what agriculture was, why there was a fair dedicated to agriculture, how they began and so on. The Big E is very large as six states are represented including Massachusetts, Connecticut, Rhode Island, Maine, New Hampshire, and Vermont! We learned about cows, horses, sheep, chickens, rabbits, pigs and so on while looking at the animals and talking to the farmers.

While the animals were educational, our daughter, like any real woman, enjoyed checking out the vendor booths as we ducked in and out of expo buildings. One vendor caught our attention. The vender was selling something known as Ideal Blox. Ideal Blox are plastic, non-magnetic geometric colored shapes that can be put together in many different designs. With the Blox younger children can learn colors, hand-eye coordination, and fine motor control. For the older kids they can increase their spatial development and 3-D reasoning while learning about geometric and algebraic applications. Supposedly, college students even create different sculptures out of several boxes at a time. Apparently, it was created by a mathematician. All of that was nice but frankly it intrigued me as a parent. When I looked at my daughter’s reaction I knew it was a must to add to our homeschool resources.

On our way home from the Big E, the first item opened in the car was the Ideal Blox. After more than 1 ½ hours of playing with it, she shared it with my husband. Then it got interesting. He looked as intrigued by it as she was showing the Ideal Blox to him. Within a couple minutes, he asked if he could see them. As I cooked dinner they sat at the counter and experimented with different designs. The neat thing with these Blox is that with 15 pieces they can make over 5,000 different designs.

Soon my daughter was asking for the Blox back. She continued to create different designs while on the floor, after dinner and even in the car. Clearly, these Ideal Blox are a hit. They have intrigued her for over five hours in just a couple days and there seems to be no end in sight. Maybe when she goes to bed I can experiment with them too! After all parents can homeschool also!

• Ideal Blox are sold at multiple online sites. To see a video and for the best price I found so far visit: http://www.hobbytron.com/Ideal-Blox.html

• To learn more about the Big E, which happens every September, visit: http://www.thebige.com/

Gifted Scissor Skills?

When our daughter was almost 5, I would take her to the weekly library storytime. It was another way to introduce her to all sorts of books, songs, little plays and activities. One day as the kids did a cutting activity, I overheard two mothers talking about how their children were going to school shortly for kindergarten. There was nothing unusual about that until they started talking about how neither of their children could cut using scissors! When I heard this I was dumbfounded.

We had always known we would homeschool and we have always felt that all children are gifted in different subjects or areas. As such, my husband and I have always assumed the responsibility to help our daughter figure out her where she was gifted. So, as I sat there that day on the floor of the library listening to these two mothers I could not help but wonder, was my kid gifted in cutting with scissors?

Surely this did not seem like a gift but as I listened the mothers continued to lament about the scissor situation and so I decided to offer an idea. I shared how when our daughter was between 2 and 3, I would give her a bucket of scrap paper and a very, very dull pair of plastic scissors and she would proceed to rip and cut the paper into different designs. I showed her how to use the scissors, what not to do with the scissors and how to carry the scissors, even though they couldn’t have stabbed anything. Then left her to her own accord to cut and rip as she was seriously engrossed in the activity. (While the scissors moved properly they were so dull that often she would be lucky if she got one decent cut out of them.)

This usually entertained her for 30 minutes or so. Then she would present me with cut/ripped paper and declare it to be a shape of something or other. Dutifully, I would hang it on my office cork board and date it as our daughter looked on smiling. This cutting and ripping continued once or twice a month. As she got older she got a metal pair of dull scissors, then a metal pair of pointed scissors and so on.

The mothers both politely listened and then one said, “Yea, but then it just makes such a mess.” The other mother responded, “I agree. I don’t have time to clean up more things.”

At that moment I had a flash of insight as though a bolt of lightening had just hit in front of me. I realized that my child wasn’t gifted in cutting with scissors; I just wasn’t more concerned about how the house looked than in giving our daughter the opportunity to learn and make a mess.

As I tried to stay calm, because I couldn’t believe that someone would not give a child the opportunity to learn because they might make a mess, I pointed out that the mess actually presented another learning activity. Cleaning up! I explained that each time after our daughter was done, I would make a game of cleaning up the paper and our daughter would participate as she was expected to do.

At this point, the mothers gave me a bewildering look. It was then that I realized that someone so concerned about their appearance, including their home, did not care to take the time to teach their child or allow them to learn on their own. I don’t know whatever happened to those mothers and children but it did reaffirm in my mind that a perfect home is not nearly as important as a child that learns to experiment, even if it makes a mess. After all, the second lesson of learning that it is their responsibility to clean up is a lesson as a parent I most enjoy today!